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Death by a Thousand Razor Cuts

How Criticism Kills Trust—and With it, Eros. Danute Kuncas March 2026 Far too many of us were raised within a culture of self-improvement that prioritizes efficiency and tightly-scheduled “productive” time. From early toddlerhood, many of our natural developmental inclinations were met with an abundance of ‘helpful redirection’ that bordered on control and curtailed our natural…

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Unexpected Outcomes of Chronic SA

Published By Danute Kuncas, Thursday, March 19th 2026 When a child is sexually abused by someone who is also intermittently tender—comforting, protective, attentive—the psyche can end up carrying a paradox that feels almost impossible to explain from the outside: revulsion and attraction braided together; fear and fondness fused into a single, incoherent knot.  The survivor…

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